{"id":143261,"date":"2025-03-14T00:14:03","date_gmt":"2025-03-13T16:14:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shuihau.hk\/?page_id=143261"},"modified":"2026-07-07T17:40:38","modified_gmt":"2026-07-07T09:40:38","slug":"wong-kau-gun","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/shuihau.hk\/en\/wong-kau-gun\/","title":{"rendered":"\u9ec3\u4e5d\u65a4 | \u4eba\u7269 | \u6c34\u53e3\u624b\u8a18 Shui Hau Diary"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Wong Kau Kan<\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div>
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Born in 1950, Wong Kau-kan (Uncle Kau) has lived in Tai O all his life.\nHis grandfather moved from Dongguan to Hong Kong and settled in Tai\nO. He founded a funeral service business that served the entire South\nLantau area, including Shui Hau Village. At the age of 16, Uncle Kau\nbegan working alongside his father, learning on the job. He eventually\ntook over the family business and continues to run it today. The Shui Hau\nDiary team first met Uncle Kau when he officiated the funeral of Shui\nHau Village head Chan Yuk-kei\u2019s mother. We had the chance to speak\nwith him about traditional funeral practices in Shui Hau and across\nSouth Lantau.<\/span><\/div><\/span>

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Written by Miranda CHU | Photography by CHU Wai-kit
\nEdited by Joe WONG | Translated by Shirley LAU<\/span><\/span><\/p><\/div>

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Funeral rituals nowadays are actually pretty much the same as\nbefore. But in the past, after coming down from the hill, family\nmembers continued with the \u201cseven-day mourning\u201d practice. 6<\/sup>\nThey would mourn on the \u201cfirst seven\u201d, \u201csecond seven\u201d, \u201cthird\nseven\u201d and so on. Back then, dazhai and the \u201cbreaking the\nhell\u2019s gate\u201d ritual were done during the \u201cthird seven\u201d. The meal\npeople have after coming down from the hill is called kai wai\nchau. It is eaten before the funeral rites are fully completed.\nThere are seven dishes. Once the funeral is officially over,\nthere\u2019s a banquet called ying hong yin with eight courses. Today,\npeople do all the rituals in one day and have ying hong yin after\ngoing up the hill the following day. And that\u2019s it.<\/div><\/p><\/div>
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